tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-224584552024-03-14T04:39:42.904-04:00DERAILEDOne Man's Story Of His Life On (And Off) The RailsBobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.comBlogger239125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458455.post-84592315034673654292022-12-29T19:48:00.002-05:002022-12-29T19:54:22.090-05:00A Ball Boy's Regret<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvVFHM8ET3A7mGFSHnTld2lxmm1c5XnOL7_GZZtLozIEcA0y31JL25wdurvvlmazj-45UvHIaekjLKrZn11YzRn1Cig-W6N--RsrAU39Xxxs_ECfKKZFZLvWF9PePQJPESIGtbKK08RbTDU1wbaEuWeCOi4bnwM0b2hCQzIYpCjzShztf4RQ/s160/IMG_1374.JPG" style="display: block; padding: 1em 0; text-align: center; "><img alt="" border="0" width="400" data-original-height="158" data-original-width="160" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvVFHM8ET3A7mGFSHnTld2lxmm1c5XnOL7_GZZtLozIEcA0y31JL25wdurvvlmazj-45UvHIaekjLKrZn11YzRn1Cig-W6N--RsrAU39Xxxs_ECfKKZFZLvWF9PePQJPESIGtbKK08RbTDU1wbaEuWeCOi4bnwM0b2hCQzIYpCjzShztf4RQ/s400/IMG_1374.JPG"/></a></div>RIP Pele!
One of the few regrets I have in my life, is the time I turned down an invitation to meet Pele.
In 1975, I won the Morsan’s Sporting Goods, “New York Cosmos Ball Boy Contest”. I was 13 at the time, and was thrilled when a Morsan’s Representative called my house one day, and told me I’d won. A week or so later, a letter from the New York Cosmos soccer team arrived, congratulating, and instructing me to meet a Mr Dan Rooney at the Press Entrance to Yankee Stadium on a certain date (I don’t remember the date now). I was also told to return to Morsan’s where I’d be given a soccer ball (a cheap plastic one) and an official NY Cosmos ball boy shirt (which turned out to be a generic green rugby shirt).
About a month later, three of my older brothers, Jimmy, Johnny and Brian, along with family friend, John Murphy, piled in my brother Jimmy’s Dodge Challenger and headed to The Bronx.
I had never been to NYC before, and my mouth went dry when I looked out the windows at the burned out buildings and the homeless people wandering the streets. This was the Bronx of the Son of Sam era, a time when “The Bronx is burning” blazed across the headlines of the New York Post. I had barely left West Haven at this point in my life, and this was like nothing I’d ever seen before. It was frightening. I was intimidated when I saw the giant baseball bat shaped smoke stack that stood just outside the Stadium entrance. My brothers told me to “calm down” and pushed me to the Press gate. There, I presented my official Cosmos letter to Mr Rooney, a stern, balding, middle aged Irish immigrant with piercing blue eyes, and a bulbous red nose. He snatched the letter from my shaking hand, and barked “Follow Me!” I ran after him as he led me through a labyrinth of tunnels under Yankee Stadium, and was awestruck when the hallway finally opened up into the Yankee dugout…and in turn, the majesty of Yankee Stadium. I remember it was a night game but the stadium lights made it look like noon. I swallowed hard, and shook hands with my fellow ball boys, all native New Yorkers with names like Vinny, Tony and Sal. They all talked, and swore ,with thick New Yawwwkk accents, the kind I’d only had heard from the kids on Wonderama. I innocently asked if they were contest winners too. They stroked their pubescent mustaches, thumbed their gold chains and laughed. They said they got PAID for this gig…”good money too!” It seems I was the only slave labor there that night. In a thick Irish brogue, Mr Rooney warned that we were to be alert at all times and there’d be no dilly-dallying chasing after the balls that went out of bounds. I was then instructed to stand on the sidelines in what would normally be considered center field, near the 417 marker.
My only recollection of the game itself is hearing my brothers cheer every time I’d touched the ball, ”Bobby! Bobby! Bobby!” The more $2 beers they ingested, the louder the cheering got. Somewhere along the way, John Murphy struck up a conversation with two beautiful French women, who were all dressed in white from head to toe. My brother Johnny would later say that they “smelled of money.” He was right. The older of the two women turned out to be a French woman, who was the long time “friend” of Leroy Neiman, the famed artist whose paintings seemed to be everywhere in 1970’s America. He was the official artist of the 1976 Olympic Games and his works could frequently be found in the pages of Playboy and Sports Illustrated magazines. His specialty was painting sports figures, and he just so happened, at that very moment,to be in an underground studio at the stadium, preparing to paint Pele, the Cosmos superstar. Pele, at the time, was arguably the worlds’ most famous athlete, and here I was…his ball boy.
After the game, I met my brothers in our designated spot in the stadium hallways. Neiman’s “friend” and her beautiful daughter stood there still talking to my brothers. Neiman’s “friend” told me she had connections and invited me to go with her to meet Leroy Neiman AND Pele.
I said, “No, thank you.”
I don’t remember why now...but I think the whole evening was overwhelming for me. I just wanted to go home. On the way home, my brothers all took turns harassing me about turning down the Pele invite. “You’ll regret it someday”, they said.
They were right.Bobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458455.post-77885297817092953572019-06-30T10:58:00.000-04:002019-06-30T10:58:48.738-04:00Lost soulsMillions=The amount the MTA has spent on new LED departure signs in Grand Central that list each train’s station stops.<br />
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Hundreds=of State of the Art repetitive speakers installed in Grand Central that give crystal clear departure announcements.<br />
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Dozens=of times I announce “5:41-Train to New Haven...Fairfield, Connecticut first stop”.<br />
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Four to Six=Misguided passengers that somehow ignore all these barriers and give me tickets to station stops in Westchester County every night.<br />
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One=handwritten sign as a last ditch effort to get people on the right train<b></b><i></i><u></u><sub></sub><sup></sup><strike></strike>Bobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458455.post-9404179541472894362018-09-02T13:21:00.000-04:002018-09-02T13:23:02.254-04:00Next time, call an Uber!Praying Mantis waiting for a train in Stamford 1 AM. Just before this photo, he pissed himself, stomped out his cigarette, then awkwardly flew into the side of the local and bounced off. Drunk!<br />
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Bobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458455.post-27987708661665271442018-08-26T10:06:00.001-04:002018-09-02T13:17:04.652-04:00The Dangling Conversation<div style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; background-color: transparent; color: #1d2129; font-family: Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; margin-bottom: 6px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">
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Girls: We’re sorry!</div>
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Random guy across the aisle: Hey, At least you’d get great parking spots.</div>
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Me: Do you know how many people get killed out here doing stupid things like that?</div>
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Girls: We’re sorry!</div>
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Girl’s mother: Conductor, I have their tickets.</div>
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Me: And where were YOU when your daughters were dangling their legs off the platform?</div>
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Girl’s mother (defensive): Well...I TOLD them to stand up.</div>
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Random guy: ...and don’t forget, you’d get disabled rate on train tickets.</div>
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Ugh!</div>
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I still haven’t figured out if the random guy was being a jerk or was trying to make a point.</div>
<b></b><i></i><u></u><sub></sub><sup></sup><strike></strike><br />Bobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458455.post-49359330107067446652018-08-08T10:13:00.000-04:002018-08-26T10:15:32.492-04:00Bridging Generations<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: #1d2129; display: inline; float: none; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">Yesterday, while crossing a footbridge at a beach here in Maine, we came upon a cute little 10 year old girl leaning over the wooden railing watching her father trolling for crabs in the water inlet below. The name “McDonough” was emblazoned across the back of the softball shirt she was wearing. I get ridiculously excited when I meet other people named McDonough, so I couldn’t wait to strike up a conversation. “What’s your name?”I asked, in the most non-pedophile voice I c</span><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: transparent; color: #1d2129; display: inline; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">ould muster. “Caitlin” she said. “Wow! My daughter’s name is Caitlin McDonough.” She smiled, but I could tell she wasn’t as taken by this fact as I was. “Where do you live?” I asked next, even though my wife was giving me that “you’re kind of being creepy” look. “Boston,” she said. “Wow! my ancestors first immigrated to Boston.” Caitlin smiled and turned back to look over the bridge as if to dismiss me. After putting our sand chairs away, I went back to the bridge and introduced myself to Patrick and Linda McDonough, Caitlin’s parents. They told me that the name McDonough is ubiquitous in Boston, “a dime a dozen” was the phrase I think Patrick used. They were very friendly, but I could tell they didn’t share my enthusiasm for finding distant relatives. I was a little disappointed, but before I left them to their crab pots, I told Caitlin that my daughter’s middle name was Aileen. Caitlin told me that her middle name was “Arlene”. I was now beside myself. I even think my Bean-town cousins were a little impressed by that.</span><b></b><i></i><u></u><sub></sub><sup></sup><strike></strike>Bobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458455.post-88882091944573667972017-12-05T19:51:00.000-05:002019-06-30T11:04:01.739-04:00Yale Glee Club Brings Holiday Cheer To Train<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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There was a shampoo commercial back in the 80's in which a freshly
showered Heather Locklear holds a bottle of Faberge Organics Shampoo.
She says that it was so good that she told two friends about it...and
they told two friends, and they told two friends...and so on, and so
on...<br />
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I know the feeling. In December of 2015, I
posted a silly video of me while working as a railroad conductor, musically "conducting "
The Yale Glee Club aboard my train. This video went viral and at this
writing has over views on 3,348,126 Views on Facebook, and 52,321
people shared the video with their Facebook friends. These numbers
don't account for the thousands that watched/shared it on YouTube, or those who saw
it on their nightly news programs across the globe. Not bad for a silly video that
I just wanted to post to a few Facebook friends.<br />
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Here's how it happened:<br />
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On
December 4th, 2015, I was the conductor on the 2:45 PM Metro North
train from New Haven to Grand Central Terminal in New York City. A few
minutes before leaving time, a swarm of college kids headed toward the
back of the train. The rear two cars were closed, so I quickly opened
them to accommodate the extra crowd. We pulled out of New Haven
Station and I began collecting tickets. I soon learned that the 80
students were on a single group ticket. I was directed to a gentleman
who looked not unlike a professor.<br />
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"What group is this?" I asked.<br />
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"The Yale Glee Club." He responded.<br />
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Now
I've had the legendary Yale Whiffenpoofs on my train before, as well as
other assorted singing groups from Yale, but for some reason, it never
occurred to me to ask them to sing. But here it was, the holiday
season...and I really wanted to hear a Christmas Carol. I asked the
professor (who turned out to be Jeffrey Douma, Yale Choral Director), if
they would sing
me a Christmas Carol. He prompted them and they then sang the most beautiful version of
"The Wassail Song" that I'd ever heard. It sent shivers down my spine.
I thanked them for sharing their talents with me as they poured out of
the train and into Grand Central.<br />
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Later that night I
was boarding the 10:06 PM train from Grand Central to New Haven. I
heard singing in the terminal, and sure enough, The Yale Glee Club
rounded the corner, walked through the gates and down the ramp toward my train. I quickly
walked forward to the head of the train to open more cars. On the way I
chatted up some of the students. I told them I had an idea for a Facebook video in which I'd say,"I'm the conductor, let me conduct."
They all laughed, and Dan Rubin, one of the Glee Club Presidents said,
"Tell us that we're singing it all wrong and that you need to conduct
us." I loved that idea....but we still didn't know which song to do.
One of the students yelled "Carol of the Bells". I knew this song
pretty well from the dozens of Christmas CD's my wife continuously plays
from Thanksgiving to December the 25th, so I said "I love it!"<br />
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When
we pulled out of the station, I quickly ran through and picked up all
the tickets. I then told my assistant conductor to take over the ship, I
had something to do in the head end. As I walked forward, I
collected the group ticket from Professor Douma. I asked for
permission to borrow his glee club for a Christmas carol I liked to "Conduct". He gladly gave
permission and even offered to stand behind me to do the real
conducting. "Okay," I said, even though I had no intention of using him.<br />
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This is what happened next:<br />
I was floored by how amazing they sounded, and I was a little self-satisfied with my less than stellar choral directing. You can see that I messed up at the end of the song when I raised my arm in a flourish, thinking the song was over, then realizing we weren't done. I was a little embarrassed by this and briefly thought about yelling "Take two!" But any subsequent execution would have lost the videos spontaneous feel.<br />
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I walked back to the rear of the train after the performance, and by the choral director Douma. He asked me when he was needed to conduct the song. "We already did it." I told him.<br />
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The next day I got an email from Greg Suralik with the video attachment. I watched the video and was delighted...and a little abashed for being such a ham. I briefly thought about posting the video to my Facebook page, but I wasn't sure how well it would be received by my employer. I decided that I better not post it in fear of getting myself into trouble. I replied to Greg's email, saying it was great, but I was too chicken to post it.<br />
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That weekend, my family went up to visit my younger daughter at her college. I hadn't shown anyone the video, but decided to pass my iphone around as I drove through Willimantic, and let them have a gander at it. They all loved it.<br />
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"Dad, you HAVE to post this...you'll be on Ellen." said my daughter Caitlin.<br />
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I told my family of my trepidation about posting the video, and they all seemed to think I was being overly cautious. Two days later, I sat at my computer, watched the video again...and decided to post it. Almost immediately, people started "liking it" and sharing it. By the time I got to work that day, I had something in the neighborhood of 250K views. The next morning it was over 1 Million views then my phone started ringing. <br />
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I first got a call from a company in Los Angeles that wanted to buy the rights to the video from me. They told me they'd give me a percentage of the profits. I told them I didn't own the video, it that it belonged to a Yale undergrad named Greg. The phone continued ringing, we were asked to appear on Good Morning America (couldn't work out the logistics). The next morning I did a radio interview with Vinnie Penn on a local radio station. Two local news stations interviewed me, one whilst following me down the aisles of my train with a camera. The New York Stations set up a press conference in Grand Central, but my train broke down on my way in from New Haven, and it was cancelled. <br />
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I became quite famous that Christmas season. It seems the video went all over the globe. Passengers wanted to take selfies with me, I even got a few autograph requests. Suddenly, my regular pizza shop stopped charging me for my daily slice of pizza, and friends I hadn't seen in years began calling and leaving messages. I had hundreds of new Facebook friend requests.<br />
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Months later I discovered I had a spam filter on my Facebook page and that I'd missed tons of interview requests from media all over the globe. I also got love letters from Sweden and Hong Kong, but most were just thank you messages for brightening people's day. I even got a special thank you from Lynda Carter, aka Wonder Woman. <br />
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"Hey baby!"<br />
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"Hi" (I give a nod and a polite smile)<br />
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"Baby...is that a real smile?"<br />
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"I'm being polite."<br />
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"You know baby...I'm 61 years old and I don't look as old as you...ya know why?... Cause black don't crack!" (laughs)<br />
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"Baby, You do know that Adam and Eve was black don't ya?"<br />
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"Yeah...I suppose."<br />
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"Give me a fistpump on that."<br />
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(We fist-bump)<br />
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"Baby...Did you know that God is black too?"<br />
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"Hmmmm...I kind of picture him as being colorless."<br />
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"Alright...Alright...I'm willing to go with dat...if you can find your way into giving me some money for a sandwich."<br />
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"But you insulted me! I'm 55 and you said you look younger than me."<br />
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''Oh baby... don't worry about dat''<br />
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I laugh, reach into my pocket and hand her a 10.<br />
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"Thank you baby...now give mama a hug."<br />
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I hesitantly stood and reluctantly embraced her.<br />
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Passing commuters stared at us, the bedraggled conductor and his homeless, ageless, nubian princess.<br />
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What a sight!Bobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458455.post-19017861515488199142015-05-25T10:44:00.000-04:002015-05-25T10:55:15.761-04:00Los IntocablesI was standing against the wall in Grand Central on Saturday when a woman approached me and asked, "Habla Espanol?" I told her "Muy Poquito" (very little). She then pointed to the grand staircase and said something about "La pelicula" which I knew meant "movie/film" and I guessed that she was asking me a trivia question...which I love...even in a foreign language.<br />
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"Los Intocables"? She asked hopefully. I took a couple of years of Spanish in high school and college but I don't remember learning "Intocables"...but not wanting to disappoint, I gave her a pen and a piece of paper and said "escribe" (write). She grabbed my pen and drew a staircase and next to it wrote "policia" which I knew meant "police." It was starting to feel like a game of Pictionary on Univision, so I became overly-animated, turned to my coworkers and yelled "hey guys...Can you think of a police movie filmed on the grand staircase?" They all shrugged as if to say "No" ( which means the same in both English and Spanish.) The woman was starting to look frustrated with me and wrote in big letters "LOS INTOCABLES." I have a lot of bilingual coworkers, but none were standing with me, so I had to throw my hands up and say "sorry" (but I couldn't think of the Spanish equivalent for the word). <br />
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As the woman walked away, I felt defeated, but then I remembered I had an iPhone in my pocket. I quickly Googled "Los Intocables" and the movie "The Untouchables" popped up. I then Googled "The Untouchables Staircase" and a shootout scene popped up on You Tube of Elliot Ness (Kevin Costner) shooting someone on Chicago's Union Station staircase. I chased after the woman, wanting to say "No esta Aqui, esta en la Ciudad de Chicago!" But she was gone...I was crestfallen, then angry. I thought; <em>what kind of person asks movie trivia questions in a foreign language?</em> Then I remembered...I AM EXACTLY THAT TYPE OF PERSON;<br />
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"Hey Pierre" I'd ask dismissively while pointing to the Eiffel Tower...'Rush Hour 3'?"<br />
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Bobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458455.post-44561386083704099372015-03-27T01:02:00.000-04:002015-03-27T09:05:32.493-04:00Rats!<em>Tonight in Grand Central at 25 track (Operations Office):</em><br />
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Operations Manager: Mr. McDonough, we need you and your engineer to bring 10 deadhead cars (no passengers) to New Haven. But there's a situation...<strong>A RAT</strong> has been spotted running around the south car in the engineer's cab.<br />
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Operations Manager: Yep!<br />
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Me: Like in the cab where I have to do the reverse move when we get to New Haven?<br />
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Operations Manager: Yep, that would be the cab... Oh, and don't leave your railroad bag on the floor. We don't want you bringing home any pets.<br />
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I half-expected the 4 guys in the office to suddenly burst out laughing...maybe an early start to April Fool's Day. Perhaps, I thought, one of them discovered my rodent-phobia from reading my blog post (below), and they were just having a little fun with me.But their faces remained stone-cold sober.<br />
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<em>Radio transmission in New Haven:</em><br />
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<em>"New Haven Station to Metro North train 5588 Do you have a rodent onboard?. Over!"</em><br />
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<em>"Metro North Train 5588 -Yes, sir...that's the story. I haven't seen it...but I really haven't been looking. Over!"</em><br />
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<em>"Metro North Station to 5588...I don't blame you. Over and Out!"</em><br />
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It wasn't easy backing up a train in New Haven with one hand on the emergency brake whilst waiting for Willard to spring into action. No rat appeared, but it was easily the longest reverse move of my railroad career.<br />
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Three college girls with bloodshot eyes got on my train tonight. They all reeked of cannabis. I explained (no less than six times) that they had to transfer trains to get to Fordham, but their stoned brains couldn't grasp the concept of transferring to another train. I was starting to get a contact high, so I finally asked..."Have you girls been smoking pot tonight?" They all denied it, but their orange Cheetos stained fingers, and several empty strewn bags of Chips Ahoy told a different story. <span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" data-reactid=".h9.1:3:1:$comment10204571507181981_10204571537542740:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body"><span class="UFICommentBody" data-reactid=".h9.1:3:1:$comment10204571507181981_10204571537542740:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0"><span data-reactid=".h9.1:3:1:$comment10204571507181981_10204571537542740:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.1:$comment-body.0.$end:0:$0:0">The next time I walked by them, they had sprayed cheap perfume on themselves. Now they smelled like cheap perfume AND pot. Not a good combo.</span></span></span><br />
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Him: Not enough.<br />
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Yes, one of the joys of being a railroad conductor is having friends in high places...mostly the Broadway Theatre catwalks. Over the years I have befriended several Broadway stagehands, and they are great at hooking me up with backstage tours when I visit a show. On this night, my family and I saw "The Last Ship" which starred Sting (he also wrote the musical score). I saw him on stage before the show <br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: blue;">27 November 2014</span><br />
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Happy Thanksgiving to all! Let the; "Hey! You look just like the Conductor from The Polar Express" season begin.<br />
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<span style="color: blue;">24 November 2014</span>
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Note to self: Never go to Shoprite on a Tuesday, which is "Senior Day"...especially on the day before a snow storm...two days before Thanksgiving....again. It was like shopping in God's waiting room.<br />
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Conductor Bobby's tip of the day: Hey Kids! When it's 2AM and you are so drunk that you can barely walk, stumbling home in the middle of the tracks is not your best option. Take the 18 -year old doofus we nearly ran over on my train early this morning. I had to climb off my train and give him a stern talking to. After ten minutes of negotiating, doofus finally agreed to climb aboard our train and we carried him to the safety of the waiting arms of the MTA police in Stamford. Don't be like doofus...call a friend, call a cab, walk home along the mean streets of Greenwich, Connecticut.<br />
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<span style="color: blue;">20 October 2014</span>
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I met comedian Jim Gaffigan tonight at a book signing for his new book, "Food" at Barnes and Noble at Union Square, NYC. He is portraying my father in the upcoming Michael Almereyda Film called "Experimenter." It's about behavioral psychologist Stanley Milgram and my father's participation acting as "The Learner/Victim" in the infamous 1961/62 experiments done at Yale University. The film premieres at The Sundance Film Festival January 25, 2015.<br />
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It's not often that a McDonough passes a bar. Congratulations to my niece, Attorney Emily McDonough!<br />
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I had an Asian woman get on my train in West Haven today and she handed me this ticket. Her English wasn't very good, so I explained in a very LOUD voice (I'm not sure why) that the ticket was, "NO GOOD!...IT'S AN ADVERTISEMENT!" I don't think she believed me...but she paid anyway...maybe out of fear.Bobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458455.post-73764837532396294242014-09-25T11:29:00.001-04:002014-09-25T11:40:42.106-04:00Who's on first?<span style="color: blue;"><strong>Early this morning on the carpool ride home:</strong></span><br />
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<strong>Engineer:</strong> Hey Bobby, that song on the radio... Isn't that Bachman-Turner Overdrive?<br />
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<strong> Me</strong>: Yes it is. Here's a trivia question for you... BTO is a spin-off of what other group?<br />
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<strong> Engineer</strong>: Hmm...I don't know.<br />
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<strong>Me:</strong> "The Guess Who."<br />
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<strong>Engineer:</strong> I told you, I don't know.<br />
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<strong>Me:</strong> No...I'm saying it's "The Guess Who."<br />
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<strong>Engineer</strong>: (now getting annoyed.) I told you<strong><em>...I DON'T KNOW!</em></strong><br />
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<strong>Me</strong>: What are we, Abbott and Costello?Bobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458455.post-22235202662447278412014-09-16T15:07:00.001-04:002014-09-25T11:38:26.047-04:00Coincidence?<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-gfcooeq5gK0/VBh88I9yFrI/AAAAAAAABrw/jEeuU9-k-aQ/s1600/9781905177325.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-gfcooeq5gK0/VBh88I9yFrI/AAAAAAAABrw/jEeuU9-k-aQ/s1600/9781905177325.jpg" /></a>I'm convinced that there is something or someone other-worldly guiding my connection to the Dr. Stanley Milgram's 1961/1962 "Obedience to Authority Experiments." Perhaps my father's spirit is leading me...whatever or whoever it is, it's starting to weird me out. Here are some examples:<br />
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Back in 2006, I wrote a post on this blog called <a href="http://bobbyderailed.blogspot.com/2006/03/shocking.html">"Shocking"</a> about my father's involvement, acting as the Learner/Victim in Dr. Stanley Milgram's infamous behavioral psychology experiments done at Yale University. In the post I explained that my father had died of a heart attack in January 1965, just before my third birthday and two and a half years after these experiments were completed. I further explained that the only record I have of how my father moved or sounded is through watching a documentary of the experiments titled "<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fCVlI-_4GZQ">Obedience to Authority</a>."<br />
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<strong><em>Coincidentally</em></strong>, on the opposite side of the globe, around the same time I had written my blog post, an Australian Psychologist named Gina Perry was doing a radio documentary about Milgram's experiments, and she wanted to talk to anyone connected to them in any way. She found my above mentioned blog post while searching on Google and she emailed me and asked for an interview. <br />
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Some months later, Perry flew to the U.S. and interviewed me at an inn in the heart of Yale. During the interview, she recorded me retelling the story of my family rediscovering my father's involvement through a 1974 segment on 60 Minutes titled "Following Orders". During the course of the interview, I gave her some leads of people to talk to, namely the names of Harold Clifford's children (he was one of the subjects in the Milgram experiment) who <strong><em>Coincidentally </em></strong>had lived across the street from me growing up. I also gave her the name of Bobby Tracy, my coworker, whose father <em><strong>coincidentally </strong></em>happened to fill in for my father in a few of the experiments.<br />
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Perry then asked if I knew the where-abouts of John Williams, the other main actor in the experiments (the instructor in the white lab coat). She mainly wanted to know if he was still alive. I told her I didn't know.<br />
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Perry spent the next year scouring the entire U.S. looking for John Williams (kind of like finding a needle in a haystack), and she finally found Williams' son living in Florida. Williams' son told Perry that she was unfortunately too late, his father had died the previous year. He also told her that he didn't know much about the experiments but that his uncle, Mark Williams (his father's brother) would know more. <br />
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Mark Williams? That's a familiar name...<br />
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<strong><em>Coincidentally,</em></strong> this same Mark Williams was my daughter's high school Social Studies teacher. I immediately called Mark and said, "You're John Williams brother?" I would later invite him out to lunch to meet Perry along with Bobby Tracy and Judi Lampner, the daughter of the late Aaron Aronow, a former New Haven Alderman, who was one of the subjects of a variation of the experiments and vocal critic of Milgram's professional ethics. Judi <strong><em>COINCIDENTALLY </em></strong>teaches school alongside a friend of mine.<br />
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By this time, Perry had turned her award winning radio documentary into a book titled "Behind the Shock Machine." and was visiting the U.S. on a press junket. I connected her to Sandi Kahn Shelton, a journalist friend of mine who writes for The New Haven Register. Shelton wrote a wonderful front page article about Perry's book, the experiment and of me discovering my father through it. Along with the article was a spooky photo taken of me <br />
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by Arnold Gold, the newspaper photographer. In the photo, I'm standing in the basement of Yale's Linsley -Chittenden Hall in the area where the experiments were originally conducted. I'm looking up into the light with eerie green shadows behind me. <br />
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On the day the newspaper article was published, I ran into retired Metro North photographer Frank English on my train. Frank lives in Manhattan and had been visiting friends in Connecticut. I hadn't seen him in a long time, so we chatted and caught up on each other's lives. I wanted Frank's opinion on the picture that ran in that day's newspaper, so I showed him the front page and Gold's eerie color photo of me. Frank was impressed with the shot and asked me what the article was about. I told him he'd probably never heard of Milgram or the experiments but... Frank smiled and let me continue...then he said that he knew the experiments and Dr. Milgram very well. <strong><em>COINCIDENTALLY </em></strong>his brother Ed English produced and directed the original "Obedience to Authority" documentary back in 1962. He immediately called his brother and told him my story.<br />
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Fast forward to three weeks ago, and Gina Perry emailed me and said they're making a movie about the Milgram experiments titled "Experimenter." I told Perry I'd love to get a part as an extra in the film since I have become somewhat of a "Zelig" to this experiment. <br />
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I looked up the IMDB page on the movie and found it's written and directed by Michael Almereyda. I Googled "Almereyda" and discovered he's also a professor at the Tisch Film School at New York University. I sent him an email and asked him for a cameo part in the film. I waited a week and didn't get a reply. I decided to call NYU and <strong><em>COINCIDENTALLY </em></strong>Almereyda picked up the phone. He told me that he got my email, but it was too late, he had already wrapped up filming and was now editing the film.<br />
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About a week later Almereyda, emailed me again, saying that by some odd<strong><em> COINCIDENCE, </em></strong>he had to re-shoot a scene, and asked if I'd like to come to New York and film a cameo.<br />
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Of course I would.<br />
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Amereyda told me that he'd love to talk to Ed English and ask him some questions about the original documentary. I told him that I'd try to get him in touch with Frank, but that I hadn't seen him in a couple of years.<br />
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<strong><em>Coincidentally, </em></strong>guess who was on my train last night??? Yep, Frank English. Too weird!<br />
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Bobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458455.post-27433642769793862862014-08-30T12:28:00.000-04:002015-04-01T10:18:56.658-04:00Backwards-thinking<div class="text_exposed_root text_exposed" id="id_5401f91298ed77d56671596">
<span class="userContent" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}">On my train home tonight, a middle-aged man startled from a drunken slumber and hazily looked around in a panic. He spotted me from the corner of his eye and yelled, "YO CONDUCTOR...WHY IS THIS TRAIN GOING BACKWARDS?" I walked over to where he was seated and patiently explained that the train wasn't going backward, he was, in fact, sitting backward. I guess my explanation was too difficult for h<span class="text_exposed_show">is pickled brain to grasp, as evidenced by him poking his sleeping wife who was seated next to him and yelling "HONEY THE TRAIN IS GOING BACKWARDS!" His wife was leaning forward with her face plastered to the pleather headrest in front of her. She managed to slowly unpeel it, then rolled her blotchy red face toward me, one eye open, drool running down her chafed chin, then slurring, "Why the train going backwards mister?" I again tried to explain, now pointing, that we weren't going backward, it was just that they were facing opposite the direction of travel. The husband looked at me expressionless, sat silent for a moment, then asked, "Did you pull some kind of trick on us or something?" At this point, I threw my hands up in the air and said, "Yes, yes I did. I'm a very tricky guy." Then I walked away.</span></span></div>
Bobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458455.post-32785340699131301352014-08-24T02:57:00.000-04:002014-08-30T12:22:30.733-04:00Stress is...<span class="userContent">Stress is...<br /><br /> Being a conductor on a six car train full of drunk and disorderly passengers at 2am...then discovering there's an electrical problem and the doors on your train won't open when you reach the first station.</span> <br />
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When we got to Stamford, I ran through the train trying different door panels while calling my engineer on my radio to see if he had the "door override" button pushed. Then I call the Rail Traffic Controller and tell him the problem. Large piles of Passengers are standing at the doors looking at me like I am an idiot, so I try<span class="text_exposed_hide">...</span><span class="text_exposed_show"> to make an announcement to tell them what is going on, but the volume is too high and all they hear is the high pitched squeal of feedback. My engineer calls, telling me to check all the circuit breakers, the RTC calls to tell me to check all the door panels. I finally find a single door that will open and a mob of drunken college kids stampede toward that one door. Just as they try to get off, another pile of drunks try to pile on...both lots tell me I'm an "F-ing idiot" and want to know why I don't simply open the doors. The MTA police are now on the scene and they want the train number, my name and employee number. Simultaneously, pods of people gather, wanting to know; "how long will we be here? Should I call a cab? Hey conductor, why don't you open the F-in' doors already? " I try to make another announcement, but all they hear is "SQUEACK!" Luckily, the RTC tells me there's an empty train 10 minutes away. We eventually key 3 doors open and transfer passengers to that train.</span></span></div>
Bobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458455.post-78442652794469272162014-05-19T12:08:00.000-04:002014-05-19T13:38:36.841-04:00Lost and Found II: Koala goes "Down Under."<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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On Saturday, I came upon a sobbing, heart broken, 5 year old girl while collecting tickets. Her father explained that his daughter dropped her favorite stuff<span class="text_exposed_show">ed animal, a koala bear named GG, while switching cars just as the train was pulling out of New Haven Station. Apparently the little girl sleeps with "GG" every night, and dad feared a sleepless night in NYC. I took the dad's number and promised the little girl that I'd do my best to find GG when I returned home.</span><br />
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<span class="text_exposed_show">That night, as we pulled into New Haven, I discovered GG laying face down in the gauge of track 12. I took this picture of the bear, and texted it to the dad. Father and daughter were both greatly relieved. Turns out "GG" originally belonged to dad when he was a child.</span><br />
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<span class="text_exposed_show">I made arrangements for the family to pick GG up at the New Haven Ticket Office on Sunday, and I'm glad to report that the little girl and Koala are happily reunited.</span>Bobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458455.post-44338520544457192752014-02-02T17:47:00.001-05:002014-02-02T18:40:49.606-05:00An open letter to my passengers<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/--BL-mSchrXE/Uu7KnLlhQJI/AAAAAAAABoQ/3X8iQFI0YaU/s1600/group_torches_pitchforks_md_wm.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/--BL-mSchrXE/Uu7KnLlhQJI/AAAAAAAABoQ/3X8iQFI0YaU/s1600/group_torches_pitchforks_md_wm.jpg" height="320" width="320" /></a><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Dear Passengers,<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Please put the pitchfork and lanterns
down. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I come in peace<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">First, let me explain that the
train crews are on your side. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We are not
the enemy… We really do want your trains to be on time…really we do.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But there are these things called <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">signals,
speed limits and speed restrictions</i></b>, and we have to adhere to them…it’s
the law.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And now we have these pesky
Federal Railroad Administration agents looking over our shoulders, and they’re in “<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Deep Dive</i>” and there’s no sign of them coming up for air.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Besides, we hate to be late for our coffee
breaks…<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It makes us cranky.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<span style="font-family: Calibri;">They say the foundation of every great
railroad starts at the track bed, and ours has fallen into disrepair.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Some years back, someone thought it would be
a great idea to replace wooden railroad ties, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">which had been in place since the Lincoln Administration, </i>with
newfangled concrete ties.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The idea was
that concrete would last forever and would be virtually maintenance free.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Well, as it turns out, forever meant 10 years.
Without proper drainage concrete ties dissolve like Alka Seltzer tablets in a
10 ounce glass of water, and before you can say “plop, plop, fizz, fizz” the
concrete melted into mud holes.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Soon the
ride into Grand Central became more frightening than “Mr. Toad’s Wild Ride”...and this is the basis of our current problems. <o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You can’t blame train crews for the bad track
bed… can you?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<span style="font-family: Calibri;">You want to talk train
cleanliness?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Yep, we’re all for that
too, especially when we have cockroaches the size of Smart Cars crawling into
our railroad bags.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“They” say they can’t
dump the toilets or give the trains a thorough cleaning since the turn times
are too tight.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Yeah…we’re not buying
that excuse either.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If Jet Blue can
clean a jumbo jet on tarmac in Newark, I’m pretty sure a car cleaner can spot
mop an M8 car in Grand Central.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Calibri;"></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Communication?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I know this has always been a big point of
contention, but your conductor can only inform you if he/she has been
informed…and with the advent of Twitter and social media,
the riding public is way ahead of us.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>For instance, I learned about the derailment in Bridgeport from a
passenger a good five minutes before I heard about it on the railroad radio.
But communication is a two way street...and sometimes you folks just don’t
listen.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Here is a transcript of a
conversation I had with a passenger last Thursday night just after I finished
making announcements that the whole railroad had been shut down and that there
would be an indefinite delay: </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Passenger:
Conductor, can I get on another train?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Me: No, sorry the whole railroad is shut down.
<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Passenger:
Then can I get on a train going in the opposite direction? <o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Me:
No, sorry, no trains moving, indefinite delay.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Passenger: So... how long will it be? <o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Me:
Indefinite delay...meaning we don't know how long.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Calibri;"></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Passenger: I KNOW what indefinite means.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Calibri;"></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Calibri;">So,
as enjoyable as it is to verbally berate your conductor, or however thrilling
it is to give the finger to your engineer when he pulls into your station 15
minutes late, remember…<strong>WE’RE NOT THE PROBLEM!</strong><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Could we apologize for the delays a little more frequently?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Sure we could!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Could we be a little more pleasant?
Certainly!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But remember, we’re human too
folks, and you are far from the first or last person that day to growl at us…call
us hurtful names… or refuse to pay for this “terrible service.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In addition to this, we have our regular cast
of drunks, fare beaters, and deviants (<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">some
are even fellow employees</i>).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As humans,
we may get defensive or become apathetic and shut down.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We need to work on that. <o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Here’s
what I propose for incoming Metro North President Joe Giulietti:<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Dear Joe,<o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">I know we don’t know each other very well,
but you always struck me as a very nice guy.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>I remember that your cat and my cat came from the same litter, so that
means we’re practically related, so I hope you listen to the following
suggestions:<o:p></o:p></span></i><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><em><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">First,</b> I would like you to propose a</em> <em><strong>“Quality of
Life Initiative"</strong> like Rudy Giuliani did in NYC. A lot of our problems have
to deal with perception, so treat the trains like 42nd Street <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">AND CLEAN THEM UP</span>!</b> I'm far from a neat nick, but even I'm
disgusted by the condition of our trains. The floors are filthy, the bathrooms
haven't been dumped and they're without toilet paper. Too many cars have
roaches crawling around, so treat the roaches like Rudy treated the peep
shows...make them disappear.<o:p></o:p></em></span></div>
<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Second</b>, with all these new cars...why
are there still seating shortages? Even Bloomberg put seating in Time
Square....and that's <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">"The
crossroads of the world."</b> <o:p></o:p></span></i><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Third:</i></b><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Communicate-Communicate-Communicate!</b>
It's like pulling teeth to get information out of the RTC's sometimes (i.e.
Where is our connection?') How can we do our "Community Policing," if
we're not informed? Even the passengers know more than we do...at least they
have Twitter to tip them off. <o:p></o:p></i></span></div>
<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Fourth</i></b><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">: Whatever happened to car inspectors
actually inspecting trains before departure? I know they used to do
it...doesn't seem like it happens anymore. Like they say...<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">if you fail to prepare, you prepare to fail.</b></i></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Yours truly,</b></i></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"></b></i></span><br />
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you see commuters, we train crew members really do care.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Now if you’d only <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">put the pitchforks down!!!</b></span><br />
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Bobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.com33tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458455.post-77734607926577740492013-10-19T11:41:00.002-04:002013-10-19T11:41:50.294-04:00Full Moon Fever 10/18/2013<span class="userContent"><br />Train 1575: My train is held in Fairfield because the traffic is stopped ahead due to a trespasser walking in front of an Amtrak train. He refuses to get off the tracks. MTA PD have to remove him.<br />
<br /> Train 1572: I plug my iphone in to charge and hide it under a seat across from my cab. Someone steals it (yes...again). Thanks to the "Find my iphone" app, and the MTA PD, phone is found sitting in a garbage can at Stratford train station later last evening. I guess an iphone4 is too passé.<br />
<br /> Train 1988: A woman gets on the train and seems to have misplaced her 21 year old schizophrenic daughter. I spend the better part of the ride calling the rail traffic controller with a description, hoping they find her in Bridgeport (they didn't). <br />
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I realize that my hand-held radio is missing, and go to use the radio in the engineer's cab. Up ahead I see three guys sitting on a bridge abutment drinking beer. I yell "Watch out!", and the engineer blows the horn, and throws the emergency brake on. The men scurry to solid ground and we narrowly miss them.</span><br />Bobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458455.post-70959576768632582062013-05-23T02:45:00.000-04:002013-05-23T02:45:02.013-04:00Metro North Derailment and Collision 5/17/2013<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span class="userContent">Lest we think that train collisions on the New Haven Line are something new; here's a picture I pulled out of the family archive. My grandmother Bridget "Bessie" Linehan McKernan was injured in this wreck in Milford, CT, Feb 1916. Nine people were killed, and the injured were treated at Laurleton Hall High School, which was set up as a make-shift triage center. It is rumored that Bessie's hair turned white overnight.</span> <br />
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Bobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458455.post-67076025440640595742013-04-26T03:52:00.003-04:002013-04-26T09:27:29.045-04:00Aaahoo!!! Werewolves of Norwalk4/24/13: <br />
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Somewhere around South Norwalk *Sheila, my assistant conductor, entered the head car of the train to collect tickets. Just as she entered, a well dressed male in a business suit quickly darted into the lavatory. Once the man was safely locked inside the bathroom, frightened passengers began complaining to her that he was "a crazy man". They said that before she entered the car, he'd been pacing wildly, screaming nonsensically, spitting and punching the head rests and kicking the seats.<br />
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After waiting several minutes, Sheila knocked on the lavatory door. The door swung open violently, and a sweating, glowering man howled;<br />
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"HERE'S YOUR TICKET BITCH...NOW SUCK MY DICK!"<br />
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I was in the back of the train collecting tickets when all of this transpired, and I didn't learn about it till my engineer called me on my radio.<br />
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Me: What's up?<br />
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Engineer: Bobby, I just had two woman knock on my cab door and they said there's a crazy guy up here, screaming and swearing and they seem pretty scared. <br />
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After hearing this, I immediately attempted to call the Rail Traffic Controller, but my hand-held radio is fickle, and it suddenly decided to stop transmitting. I tried another radio in the cab, but that wasn't working any better than my hand-held. I walked back a car and tried another radio, and that wasn't working great either. I finally asked my engineer to call for police assistance. The Rail Traffic Controller (RTC) said that the police would be waiting for us in Stamford, some 10 minutes away from where we were. Ten very looonnnggg minutes away from where we were.<br />
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<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-CmkPkWPJVqs/UXon17ufpRI/AAAAAAAABjg/BVoQhlwD0M0/s1600/imagesCASVE1LM.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-CmkPkWPJVqs/UXon17ufpRI/AAAAAAAABjg/BVoQhlwD0M0/s1600/imagesCASVE1LM.jpg" /></a>I walked forward to evaluate the situation, and in the distance, I saw a crazed man leaving the lavatory. I could see him prowling the aisle, waving his arms frantically, and howling in the air at no one in particular. He burst open the barrel end door and charged right at me. He was clearly enraged and sweating profusely....almost cartoonishly...kind of like Ted Striker in the movie "Airplane."<br />
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I stood in the aisle to block the path of this charging wild beast.<br />
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"May I help you?" I asked in my best non-panicked professional voice. <br />
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"YOU BETTER BACK THE FUCK UP!" He growled.<br />
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He pushed past me and leapt into a seat. He again began violently punching and kicking the seat in front of him.<br />
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I finally found a radio that worked and called the RTC and updated him on the situation. I explained that the man was acting violently and that he had reportedly spit on some of the passengers. The RTC instructed me to hold the train in Darien and wait for police assistance.<br />
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A few minutes later (it seemed like an eternity), a Darien police officer arrived. I explained the situation to the officer and warned him that the man was wild, and dangerous and that he should proceed with great caution. The cop waited for backup (good move on his part). Two more officers arrived. <br />
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I escorted the three officers to the seat where the man had previously been sitting. Surrounding passengers pointed to the lavatory, then said in unison... "HE'S IN THERE!"<br />
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Sheila and I evacuated the passengers from the area surrounding the lavatory while the officers pounded on the door.<br />
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Again the lavatory door swung open violently and the officers reached in and grabbed for the crazed beast and tried to pull him from his den.. The suspect growled and pounced out of the lavatory, swinging wildly and fighting back with all his might. The officers now had him in their grips, but he flipped and flopped and tried to break free from their clutches. All four of them tumbled into a seat across from the cab. <br />
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"Stop fighting, or we're gonna tase you man," warned one police officer.<br />
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This seemed to enrage the wild man even more. <br />
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One of the cops, a female officer, pulled out her taser gun....<br />
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CLICK-CLICK-CLICK-CLICK, the taser shouted.<br />
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"YOU BITCH!!!" The wild man shouted back.<br />
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CLICK-CLICK-CLICK-CLICK!!! The taser howled again.<br />
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"YOU FUCKIN' BITCH!!! The crazed man howled back.<br />
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Two MTA cops arrived and they quickly jumped into the fray. The five officers finally subdued the man, and carried him out to the platform where they wrestled handcuffs onto to his paws...I mean wrists.<br />
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Two MTA detectives boarded the train and took statements from witnesses. Most were cooperative, some were apathetic. One guy pulled out his iPhone and stealthily recorded Sheila and I as we checked in on one another.<br />
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After several minutes, the detectives released the train and we were back on our way. We made it to Grand Central on time (thank you very much).<br />
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I think a lot of passengers were shaken up by what they just witnessed. A few stopped Sheila and I and said they were sorry that we had to deal with the situation. Others thanked us for getting the him off of the train. I think a lot of them had the previous week's event in Boston in the back of their minds.<br />
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"Imagine a man acting that way after what went on in Boston last week." said an elderly woman.<br />
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Another guy groused; "What's going on with Metro North? Last week I was delayed on a train while the FBI looked for Boston bombers. This week I'm delayed by a lunatic."<br />
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Later, I told some of the passengers in the rear of train what had transpired in the front of the train. One of these commuters is an NYPD officer and he said that it sounded like the guy was in a "PCP rage." He said that's what drove Rodney King to behave the way he did. <br />
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I still don't know what transformed this seemingly normal businessman into a beast. His actions were totally unprovoked. But I'm working on a theory...<br />
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Tonight, I looked up into the sky and noticed that the moon was full. "That explains a lot." I said to my engineer. "I'm thinking that maybe that guy was a werewolf."<br />
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I flashback and watch him pace the aisle of the train like a caged animal. The sweat pouring down his face, the foam gathering in the corners of his mouth...the deepening five o'clock shadow.<br />
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I climb up into the engine, I howl at the moon and begin to sing to the tune of "Werewolves of London." <br />
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AAAHOO!! Werewolves of Norwalk.<br />
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*name changed to protect the innocentBobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458455.post-78396282450465737182013-03-17T08:52:00.000-04:002013-03-17T09:04:32.656-04:00DonnybrookAhhhh...St. Paddy's Day. Nothing makes me prouder of me Irish heritage than puddles of green vomit, and a good ol' donnybrook on a commuter train. St. Patrick would be so proud.<br />
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<strong>October 16th</strong>: A guy boards my train in New Haven and when he opens his wallet, I see a yellow "Post It" note glued to his credit cards. It reads; "New Haven Taxi<strong> 777-7777</strong>". I find this funny. I don't always remember phone numbers...but I'm pretty sure I could remember this one.<br />
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On my go- home train, the emergency window in the "quiet car" is making a racket. The weatherstripping around the glass is loose and the pane is rattling like crazy. My passengers look annoyed. Like MacGyver, I quickly grab seat checks out of my pocket and shim the small pieces of cardboard between the glass and the rubber gasket that surrounds it. The window goes silent and the passengers cheer. I'm the hero of quiet car.<br />
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<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-m5sMVfasnco/UIgQ3-XXqEI/AAAAAAAABhw/_TRhi4qQqy4/s1600/imagesCA7F3GSR.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-m5sMVfasnco/UIgQ3-XXqEI/AAAAAAAABhw/_TRhi4qQqy4/s1600/imagesCA7F3GSR.jpg" /></a><strong>October 17th</strong>: I meet up with author/journalist Sandi Kahn Shelton at Starbucks. She is interviewing me for an article in The New Haven Register . The story is about my father's participation in the famous "Obedience to Authority" experiments by Dr. Stanley Milgram. Milgram conducted these experiments at Yale in 1961-1962 to observe how obedient people were when following orders from an authority figure. <br />
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Between sips of her iced tea and my Grande Vanilla Chai Latte, Sandi tells me how much she loves my blog and writing style. She is one of my favorite writers, so this is a<strong> HUGE</strong> compliment. It's a wonder that my big head fits through the door of the coffee shop. We agree to meet at Yale's Linsley-Chittenden Hall (where the experiments were conducted) the next day for a photo shoot to accompany the newspaper article.<br />
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<span style="color: red;"><strong>Wednesday evening- October 17</strong>: My train hits a trespasser and I have to go out and search for the body... And that's all I have to say about that.</span><br />
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<strong>October 18th</strong>: I wake up with a knot in my stomach, remembering the previous evening's activities. I get a call from a counselor from the railroad's employee assistance program. She says she's sorry that I had to go through the trauma and asks if I want to come in and discuss my feelings. I thank her for the offer, but tell her that this is my third fatality in my 26 years on the railroad...and that I think I'll be okay. She encourages me to take three days off (regular procedure whenever crews are involved in a fatality) and I tell her that I will. <br />
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They say that railroaders average three fatalities in their career. This was my third and hopefully last fatality. I'm done.<br />
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After breakfast, I drive to New Haven and get stuck behind a Connecticut Transit Bus, then spend the next 10 minutes staring into the eyes of Attorney Jonathan Perkins, a personal injury lawyer whose giant face is plastered on the back of the bus in an advertisement for his law firm.<br />
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Attorney Perkins was on my train one day this past summer, and I told him that his head was much smaller than the buses advertise. He laughed...well he kind of laughed.<br />
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<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-DP3Myp12C-c/UIgOOOW0rsI/AAAAAAAABhY/76kUtmZYrtc/s1600/imagesCADKX842.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-DP3Myp12C-c/UIgOOOW0rsI/AAAAAAAABhY/76kUtmZYrtc/s1600/imagesCADKX842.jpg" /></a>I search for Linsley-Chittenden Hall and find it right smack dab in the middle of Yale's old campus. It's a beautiful Gothic looking building, all brownstone, decorative spires and Tiffany windows. I've never been here before, but know that my father's experiment was done somewhere in the basement of the building. I walk down a set of dimly lit steps to the basement which befits a medieval castle. I open heavy wooden doors but can't find a room that looks like the experiment lab. There are no plaques on the wall designating it as the site of the Milgram experiments (due to the unethical nature of the experiments, Yale is not exceedingly proud of it). I find an office upstairs and ask a secretary if she knows exactly where the experiments were conducted. She says she thinks they were done "at Berkeley...out in California". I tell her that, "no...the experiments were done somewhere right beneath your desk."<br />
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"Really?" She says.<br />
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I go back outside to wait for Sandi and the Register photographer and I hear someone shouting "GERONIMO!!!.....GERONIMO!!!" I instinctively start looking up at the tops of nearby buildings waiting for someone to jump (when I was a kid, we always yelled "Geronimo!" before jumping off of something...I'm not sure why.)<br />
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<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-eetUIRfB7S4/UIgOk-2e_OI/AAAAAAAABhg/G_4BppTCPQM/s1600/imagesCAK4SWAK.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-eetUIRfB7S4/UIgOk-2e_OI/AAAAAAAABhg/G_4BppTCPQM/s1600/imagesCAK4SWAK.jpg" /></a> "GERONIMO!!!" I look across the street toward the sound of the shouts and notice a drunken Native American standing in front of a brownstone building that I recognize to be "The Skull and Bones" tomb. "GERONIMO!!!" he shouts again, now shaking his fists.<br />
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I recently read that the notorious Skull and Bones Society (a secret Yale fraternity that counts several U.S. presidents and Supreme Court justices among its members), has the famous Native American warrior's skull deposited somewhere inside this tomb. Understandably, Native Americans want the skull back to give it a proper burial. <br />
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<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-GxS-7SM3zrQ/UIgPr-lH5II/AAAAAAAABho/IYapwnj9v2g/s1600/doc5083393bb33cd456697280.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;">. <img border="0" height="218" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-GxS-7SM3zrQ/UIgPr-lH5II/AAAAAAAABho/IYapwnj9v2g/s320/doc5083393bb33cd456697280.jpg" width="320" /></a>I meet Sandi and Arnie (The Register photographer) and Arnie takes several shots of me somewhere near where the experiment was conducted (I never found the exact location). He keeps having me look up toward the ceiling light and I don't understand why. A few days later, I see this spooky...but very cool picture plastered on the cover of The New Haven Register. Photography is all about shadows and light.<br />
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<strong>October 19</strong>: I drive up to the Connecticut State Library in Hartford to do genealogy research. One of those big car carrier trucks catches fire just ahead of me on I-91, and I see giant plumes of smoke about a quarter mile up the road. The conflagration shuts down the highway and I sit in traffic for 90 minutes. I finally make it to the library, and find that keeping busy takes my mind off of the Wednesday evening's activities. Searching for dead people in files, microfilm, and computers is fun. Searching for real dead people is not. The irony isn't lost on me.<br />
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<strong>October 21</strong>: <a href="http://www.nhregister.com/articles/2012/10/21/news/doc5083393bb33cd456697280.txt">Sandi's article appears on the front page of The New Haven Register</a>. I'm exceedingly pleased with how it turned out, so I link the article to my facebook page. I then spend the better part of the day checking my status updates waiting for people to comment. I laugh at how narcissistic this behavior is...and ask my wife if she thinks me a narcissist.<br />
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"You think?" She answers sarcastically.<br />
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<strong>October 21: </strong> I'm finally back to work, and they have me covering the 1:15AM train out of Grand Central. This train is always entertaining...and so dysfunctional that it should have its own blog.<br />
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When I start collecting tickets, I notice a 20-something African American couple making out in the middle of the train. By the time I approach to get their tickets, the man is standing in front of his girlfriend and his belt is unbuckled. His pants are riding down around his thighs and they're about to commence a sex act.<br />
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"WHOA!!!" I say. "Pull those pants up...You can't do <em><strong>that</strong></em> here."<br />
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The guy pulls his pants up and buckles his belt. He and his mate apologize and they assure me it won't happen again, but as soon as I turn my back, I hear the belt unbuckle and he's standing up in front of her again.<br />
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"What did I just tell you?" I shout. "Pull your pants up or I'm going to have you arrested." <br />
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Now the woman apologizes, saying they just got engaged and they can't help themselves. By now the surrounding passengers are shaking their heads in disbelief. <br />
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Halfway through the ride, I notice the amorous couple have moved their seats to the head car of the train, which is now devoid of passengers. I contemplate confronting them again (I assume they were back at it)...but it's 2AM, and there's no one else around. It's been a tough week, so I decide a "don't ask-don't tell" policy is the best way to go.<br />
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Ahhh!....Young love.Bobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458455.post-58877708610885331092012-10-20T08:51:00.002-04:002012-10-20T10:06:02.003-04:00SHOCKING!!! (Again)<em><span style="color: red; font-size: large;"><strong>Due to the recent article in the New Haven Register, I am rerunning this post which originally appeared in March of 2006:</strong></span></em><br />
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Something shocking happened to my brother John one Sunday night in 1974. He was at his girlfriend’s house watching the CBS news show 60 Minutes and half paying attention to the screen when correspondent Morley Safir started a segment titled “Following Orders.” Safir introduced the piece by showing black and white footage of a psychological experiment that was conducted at Yale University. John was about to turn the channel when he noticed that one of the men in the film looked exactly like my father. My father had died nine years previous to this broadcast, so he was perplexed. He jumped off the couch in order to get a closer look.<br />
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As Safir narrated, the film showed a short, stocky and bespectacled man. He was middle-aged and wore suspenders. He was seated in a stark white room while a man in a long white lab coat attached electrodes to his arms. When he finished connecting the wires he asked the man if he had any questions or concerns.<br />
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<strong>Man in suspenders</strong>: About two years ago I was at the Veteran’s Hospital in West Haven.<br />
While there, they diagnosed me with a heart condition…nothing serious, but as long as I’m having these shocks…how strong are they? How dangerous are they?<br />
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<strong>Man in lab coat</strong>: No, although the shocks may be painful, they are not dangerous.<br />
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THAT GUY IN THE SUSPENDERS IS MY FATHER! John shouted. He called home and my mother answered the phone.<br />
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<strong>Mom</strong>: Helllooo!<br />
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<strong>John</strong>: Mom, quick turn on 60 minutes. Daddy is on there…and they’re electrocuting him.<br />
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<strong>Mom</strong>: What are you talking about?<br />
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<strong>John</strong>: It’s some kind of psychological experiment and every time he gets a word association question wrong… they shock him.<br />
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<strong>Mom</strong>: Oh THAT experiment (as if my father had been in several experiments.) Yes, I vaguely remember him doing an experiment at Yale about 12 years ago.<br />
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The shocking truth is that in 1961 through 1962, my father, who worked as head auditor for The New York, New Haven and Hartford Railroad,(predecessor to the railroad I work for) took a part time job with a Yale professor named Dr. Stanley Milgram. The railroad did not like their management employees taking part time jobs but my father had nine mouths to feed and was employed at Yale for about a year.<br />
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Milgram, a social psychologist, took out an ad in the New Haven Register that offered to pay volunteers $4.00 for one hour's work, to participate in a psychological experiment at Yale University in a study to investigate memory and learning. Participants were told that the study would look at the relationship of punishment and learning. Volunteers would work in pairs; one would be the teacher, the other a learner. The two men would draw straws but it was fixed that my father (<strong>a confederate</strong>) would always draw the short straw and be the learner.<br />
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My father was strapped to a chair and electrodes were attached to his arms. It was explained to the teacher that the electrodes were connected to an electric shock generator and that the teacher was to shock my father for every wrong answer he gave in a series of word association questions.<br />
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The teacher was then brought to a separate room and sat in front of the shock generator. The machine had about 30 switches. The switch farthest to the left read 15 volts (slight shock) to 450 volts (severe shock). The switch farthest to the right was simply marked XXX. Every time my father got a question wrong, the learner had to give him a shock that increased in severity with every wrong answer (<strong><u>in reality, my father never received any shocks</u></strong>). My father’s groans and screams were pre-recorded and played each time the teacher gave him a shock. Many of these teachers expressed concern for my father’s well being, some even protesting about continuing, but the researcher in the lab coat urged them on.<br />
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Milgram’s results were shocking. He found that 65% of participants, even after hearing my father’s screams, zapped him all the way to the last switch. This study proved that everyday normal people could cause pain and suffering to another person under the right set of circumstances (think Nazi Germany). This experiment is still talked and written about today. Just last year The New York Times ran a piece on it, after US soldier Lynndie England said that she was innocent of Iraqi prisoner abuse at Abu Ghraib, because, she said, “I was just following orders.”<br />
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Shortly after the 60 Minutes broadcast, Dr. Milgram, who then chaired the Psychology Department at City University of New York (CUNY), appeared on the Phil Donahue Show. He had finally released the findings of the experiment and had written a book about it. It was titled, “Obedience to Authority.”<br />
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As we watched the show, we were all in a state of shock. They ran the footage of my father being strapped to the chair and we could hear his protests when the teacher started flipping switches and doling out discipline.<br />
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“Let me out of here!” He cried, “You can’t keep me here! Let me out!”<br />
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We still weren’t certain if my father was really getting shocked or not. We wondered if this might have had something to do with the fatal heart attack he suffered less than three years later at the young age of 49. After the show, my mother contacted CUNY and asked to speak with Dr. Milgram.<br />
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The next day our phone rang and I answered it. The man on the other line said, “Hello, this is Stanley Milgram, is Mrs. McDonough in.”<br />
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Dr. Milgram could not have been more pleasant. He told my mother how much he enjoyed working with my dad and he reassured her that he was unharmed in the experiments. He sent my mom an autographed copy of the book that was inscribed:<br />
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<em>To Mrs. James McDonough,</em><a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/1442/2284/1600/0953096475.jpg"><em><img alt="" border="0" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/1442/2284/200/0953096475.jpg" style="float: right; margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px;" /></em></a><br />
<em>I thought you might like to have a copy of this book.<br />As you know, your late husband was part of the<br />research team at Yale University. It was a pleasure<br />to work with him, and he was a very fine man.<br /><br />Sincerely,<br />Stanley Milgram<br />April 1974</em><br />
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After her conversation with Dr. Milgram, my mother rented the 8mm reel to reel version of the “Obedience to Authority” movie so we could all watch it at home. We gathered in our living room as my brother Jimmy set up the projector and hung a white bed sheet from our living room wall. I really didn’t remember much about the movie, probably because the quality of the projector was so poor. It had no audio and the picture was grainy (perhaps the sheet just needed washing.) I do remember making some great shadow puppets on the wall though.<br />
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<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-O_wo7i4pyW0/UIKb5T_ObwI/AAAAAAAABhI/lQUZYm7241E/s1600/James+J.+McDonough+001.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-O_wo7i4pyW0/UIKb5T_ObwI/AAAAAAAABhI/lQUZYm7241E/s320/James+J.+McDonough+001.jpg" width="210" /></a>My father had died just two weeks prior to my third birthday and I have no recollection of him. We used to have an 8x10 picture of him that hung over the TV in the den of my mother’s house. This picture was an icon for me, a photo of someone from the past, not known but idolized. Much like the pictures of Jesus, Pope Paul and John F. Kennedy that my grandfather had hanging on the walls in his house next door. When anybody spoke of my father this was the picture I had in my mind’s eye.<br />
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In 1994, I read in the newspaper that Yale's Sterling Library acquired Milgram's Obedience experiment archives from Alexandra Milgram, Dr. Milgram's widow (he died in 1984 at 51 years of age). I wanted to get a video of the “Obedience to Authority" movie, so I contacted the archive librarian at Yale who in turn referred me to Penn State University since they now own the rights to the film. The librarian at Penn State told me that they normally only sell the video to institutions of higher learning and that they never had an individual request a copy for home use before. He said he could sell me a copy, but the going price was $1000.<br />
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I explained to the librarian that I was the son of one of the experiment’s main participants and I just wanted a copy for the family archives.<br />
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The librarian told me that under the circumstances, he would talk to Mrs. Milgram, and see if they could give me a break on the price of the video.<br />
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I was shocked, when a few days later I received a call from the librarian at Penn State. Mrs. Milgram said that I could have a copy of the movie for free, as long as I paid shipping and handling. The video arrived in the mail a few weeks later.<br />
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Unlike the 8mm home movie we had watched, this video was crystal clear. The hair stood up on my neck as I heard my father speak for the first time (he sounded nothing like I suspected). I had never seen his picture taken from behind before and I inspected his bald spot. I had to laugh when I saw that we had the same smile and mannerism. I pushed the play button over and over again as I wiped the tears from my eyes.<br />
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Recently, I had a middle-aged woman on my train, a Yale name tag hung from her neck. We began talking and she told me that she was a psychology professor at the University. I asked her if she was familiar with the Milgram experiment.<br />
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“Of course,” she said.<br />
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I then launched into the story I’ve just told here and how I received a copy of the video from Milgram’s widow.<br />
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“How strange,” the psychologist said, “ that the only memory you have of your father is that of him being a victim.”<br />
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“Shocking really,” I said.<br />
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For more information on the “Obedience to Authority” experiment, please visit: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W147ybOdgpE">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W147ybOdgpE</a> or <a href="http://www.stanleymilgram.com/milgram.php">stanleymilgram.com</a>Bobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458455.post-33332275517631127082012-10-16T10:19:00.001-04:002012-10-16T10:57:39.797-04:00"So...Where are you going tonight?""So....Where are you going tonight?"<br />
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Sometimes the question doesn't even need to be asked. Take the hoards of people dressed head to toe in Yankees or Rangers uniforms who board my train for example. Groups of young ladies going to bachelorette parties are also pretty easy to spot (they're the ones huddled in the five seaters, sipping margaritas from penis shaped straws). Most of the time though, passenger's evening plans are not so obvious, so I ask...<br />
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"So...Where are you going tonight?"<br />
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Most people simply answer "New York." That's when I roll my eyes and say; "Yeah,<em><strong> I know that!!!</strong></em> But what do you intend to do once you get there?... Are you going out to dinner?... Maybe going to see a Broadway show...?<br />
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People seem to be a little put off by my intrusive questioning, but they want to be nice to the prying conductor, so they'll avoid eye contact, and say something like..."Just going to meet some friends for dinner and drinks." <br />
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Sometimes my customers surprise me though, and they give me very candid answers. (<em>Flashback scene; "Initiate super-wavy flashback effect!".)</em><br />
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One afternoon this past summer, a lovely, fit, dark haired woman in her mid-30's was on my train. She was very stylish, dressed casually in black clothing (the required New York uniform). <br />
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"So...what are your plans for this evening?" ( Sometimes I like to mix up my Inquisitions.) <br />
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"I'm going to an Intervention." She answered without hesitation.<br />
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"Come again?" I thought I'd misheard her.<br />
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"My old college roommate is in an abusive relationship, and my friends and I can't standby and watch it happen anymore...so we're staging an intervention."<br />
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"Wow!" I said. "That takes a lot of guts. You <em><strong>do</strong></em> realize this whole thing could blow up in your faces, and you might lose a friend tonight."<br />
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"Yeah," she said. "I know... but it's a risk we're willing to take.<br />
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I congratulated she and her friends on their courage and concern, and I wished them, and her abused friend the best of luck.<br />
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Sometime back in July, I had a pale, frail looking man on my train who looked relatively young to be in such tough shape...I'm guessing he was in his mid 50's . The emblem on his dark blue sweatshirt said he was from a firehouse in Massachusetts, though I don't remember which town it was now. He had a portable oxygen tank at his feet, which was tethered to plastic tubing that ran the length of his torso. The tube then ran behind his head, split into two sections, folded over his ears like eyeglasses, and reconnected again under his nose on a nasal cannula that supplied his nostrils with oxygen.<br />
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"So...Where are you going today?" I asked, anticipating that he might need the assistance of a wheelchair in Grand Central.<br />
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The man said he was going to Manhattan to meet up with a group of disabled rescue workers from Ground Zero. He explained that he was a retired fireman from Massachusetts who had volunteered as a rescue worker at the site of the former Twin Towers buildings in the days after the terrorist attacks. Years later he developed "lung problems" like so many of his fellow rescue workers. He now volunteered his time on the board of a 9/11 disabled rescue worker's group...a group that was getting smaller and smaller by the day due to all the illnesses that had befallen the membership.<br />
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Recently I had a cute freckled- faced blond girl on my train. I thought she was a college co-ed, since she looked not unlike the uber-chic teens in the pages of the Abercrombie and Fitch catalogue .<br />
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"So..." I asked..."What's on the agenda tonight?"<br />
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She looked so young, I half expected her to say ...<em>I'm going to a sorority party,</em> or maybe, <em>I'm going to a Taylor Swift concert. </em><br />
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"I'm going out to dinner with some friends." She answered.<br />
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I told her that I was writing a post for my blog, and that if she wanted to appear in the pages of "Derailed" she'd better come up with a better answer than that.<br />
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"Well how's this? (She really seemed to want to be in this story.)<br />
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"It's my first day off in<strong><em> three years!"</em></strong><br />
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"<em><strong>Three years?"</strong></em> (<em>And I thought I worked a lot</em>.)<br />
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"Yeah, I'm a surgical resident at Yale, and we never get days off."<br />
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"You can't be a doctor!" I said. "You look like you're 18."<br />
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"I wish! She laughed, now pulling her work ID out of her back pocket. Sure enough, her name was prefaced with "Dr."<br />
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"Wow" I said. "The older I get, the younger you doctors look."<br />
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<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-8_cspmO0qkY/UH1sxOZYrbI/AAAAAAAABg4/VIRxn7cGRyU/s1600/FY-ENOUGH4508.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-8_cspmO0qkY/UH1sxOZYrbI/AAAAAAAABg4/VIRxn7cGRyU/s320/FY-ENOUGH4508.jpg" width="239" /></a>Speaking of being old...When did I become <strong><em>"That Guy?" </em></strong>Remember when you were in your twenties and you and your friends would go to a concert, and inevitably, some middle age guy would stop you outside of the concert hall and ask who your were going to see? You and your friends didn't want to be rude, so you'd tell the guy the name of the band, and without fail he'd say..."<em>Never heard of 'em</em>." Fast forward 30 years and I've become <em><strong>THAT GUY?</strong></em> For reasons I can't explain, I insist on asking my young concert going passengers what band they're going to see, only to end up commenting.... "<em>Never heard of 'em</em>."<br />
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Unbelievably, there are some passengers who just don't seem to want to get questioned by their conductor. Take the guy I had on the train yesterday for example. He left his ticket out on the seat, his eyes were closed, he was wearing headphones, and a tee shirts that read "<strong>F#@K YOU! I HAVE ENOUGH FRIENDS.</strong>" Yeah...I have no idea where this guy was going.<br />
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<br />Bobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22458455.post-28821412785485959412012-10-03T12:33:00.002-04:002012-10-05T00:39:17.467-04:00Note to Self<br />
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<strong>Note to self: Sometimes I'm naive.</strong><br />
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<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-hsjBT3S_E1c/UGxZrj8IwTI/AAAAAAAABgY/xNLsaODGCr8/s1600/pee" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="150" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-hsjBT3S_E1c/UGxZrj8IwTI/AAAAAAAABgY/xNLsaODGCr8/s200/pee" width="200" /></a>Whenever I'm walking along the tracks, I notice copious amounts of plastic water bottles filled with yellow liquid. I always assumed these bottles were filled with sports drinks like Gatorade or Powerade, and I thought it careless that so many of my railroad brethren would litter and be so wasteful. I mentioned my concern to an engineer one day...and he gave me one of those, <em>how stupid can you be?</em> looks. He explained that engineers don't always have time to run to the lavatory when they're running a train and sometimes they have to make do. A lot of them keep an empty plastic water bottle in their railroad bag for such emergencies. I won't go into all the disgusting details here, but let's just say, it's not like they can flush in the engineer's cab, so any open window will do. After gagging, I thought of all the times I sat in these cabs eating my lunch. I guess I need to start carrying an industrial size bottle of Purell. <br />
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<strong>Note to self: Some people are lazy</strong>.<br />
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One of my passengers got off the train in Noroton Heights shaking his head in disgust. He came up to my cab window and grumbled, "Your engineer pulls down too far on the platform." I wanted to respond; <em>Well, the people who parked toward the head of the train think my engineer spotted the train perfectly. </em> It was<em> </em>obvious though, this guy didn't care about them...he only cared that he had to walk an extra 170 feet further than he expected to his BMW in the parking lot. I'm sure in Manhattan this blowhard treks three city blocks for a dirty water dog, but ask him to walk an extra couple of train car lengths and he gets all bent out of shape.<br />
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<strong>Note to self: Drunks are stupid.</strong><br />
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I had two drunk Yankee fans returning home from the stadium last night. I noticed that their tickets were emblazoned "<strong>Yankee Stadium E 153rd / Brewster</strong>"...as in Brewster, <strong>New York</strong>. "Gentleman," I said, "We have a problem here. Stamford, <strong>CONNECTICUT </strong>is the next stop for this train." The younger of the two drunks looked up at me with one eye open and said "<em>Bullshiiiiit!!!</em>" His friend agreed, and he deemed me "<em>full of shit</em>." Obviously they thought I was playing with them. "No...Really!" I said... and then I thought; W<em>hy am I arguing with these drunk idiots?</em> Normally I try to accommodate my wayward passengers and see if I can possibly get them off on the nearest platform, but there was something about the way the younger drunk said "<em>Bullshiiiiit!</em>" that annoyed me. I guess they finally believed me when we pulled into Stamford Station, as evidenced by the pounding they gave the garbage cans on the platform.<br />
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<strong>Note to Self: Some people are rude.</strong><br />
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<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-HV3BuhNajJg/UGxiKAGmL9I/AAAAAAAABgo/iT5pwNvGnUI/s1600/cord" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-HV3BuhNajJg/UGxiKAGmL9I/AAAAAAAABgo/iT5pwNvGnUI/s1600/cord" /></a>Yesterday, a woman got on my train and immediately plugged the cord of her smart phone into the power outlet. Apparently only the phone was smart, since she sat across the aisle from the outlet, leaving the cord to dangle like a trip wire just inches off the ground blocking my, and everyone else's, well worn path. I approached her and told her that the cord was blocking the aisle and she'd either have to move her seat or unplug the cord. That's when she sighed, looked up and gave me an annoyed look...a look that said; <em>Why are you hassling me?</em><br />
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On this same train I had a guy wearing headphones who missed his stop. He hadn't heard my several announcements for passengers in the rear two cars to walk forward because he was blasting Jay Z into his ears.<br />
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These headphone wearers are my new pet peeve. Especially since they ask me questions without removing their ear buds or headphones. Inevitably, I'll answer their question and they'll say <em>"What happened?"</em> They never think to take their headphones off, and say "Excuse me sir?" It's always "<em>What happened?"</em> I motion for them to take their headphones off, and when they do, I say, "What happened is that you were in the wrong car and now you've missed your stop."<br />
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<strong>Note to Self: Some people are still honest in this world</strong>.<br />
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A family from India was visiting on my train this week. The thirty-something year old son handed me tickets for he, his wife and his parents. I noticed he seemed a little unsure about something, then he spoke in broken English; "I bought my father a senior citizen ticket...but I'm not sure what the railroad considers a senior citizen." I told him that the railroad considers 65 and over a senior. He told me that his father was only 64 1/2, and he quickly pulled out his wallet and paid the difference. This was a refreshing change from the bearded, balding men who regularly hand me tickets marked "Child."<br />
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<strong>Note to Self: My faith in humanity has been restored.</strong>Bobbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08762529323869482989noreply@blogger.com6